The internet is home to many legendary challenges. There has been the “Harlem Shake” and more recently the “Mannequin Challenge”. While everyone was on board with the former two, some are questioning the latest trend to sweep across the internet.
There are some people who are on board as well, praising it as “#RelationshipGoals”. However, for every positive comment about a couple sharing in some harmless fun, there are also many commenters who aren’t sharing in the laughter. One person wrote: “Any man willing to do the #switchitupchallange should be ready to lose their woman to a real man in the near future.” Some people are taking the higher road, though. One user @ichbinsarahh, wrote: “How does this photo affect your life in any way? Back the [expletive] up outta here…It’s sad that a ‘real’ man has to go out and belittle someone else’s happiness.”
It seems as though there are definitely some who will be choosing to pass on this funny challenge, but other than not partaking in it, some are also calling out the men in these photos as “gay”. This can be dangerous for a few reasons. The first reason that comes to mind is that people should not and can not be using a sexual preference as a way of bashing other people. As the Huffington Post writes: “Pay attention to the words you use, the way you articulate yourself, and be aware of how the things you say may affect people around you.” We have achieved too much in terms of equality and anti-bullying in recent years to be throwing around the term in such a manner. Using an individuals carnal preference as an insult is a stone we should keep firmly planted and be careful not to overturn.